over a year ago, well i have a different story i wanna have another baby but my boyfriend wont have sex with me without a condom he doesnt want to have another baby i want it to break but i cant put a hole in a closed package and he puts it on his self and does a good job at it is there any other way to wear a condom and still get pregnant but on purpose tho, EmmaandElena'sMommy Nothing major but me and my OH (recent ex) did sleep together quite a bit this month and throughout my 'fertile time'. I don’t mean to hurt their feelings- there just isn’t anything I want to say to them. Sorry that's not helpful. A "late" period is not in itself cause for alarm! but we mess around first and when he gets hard he puts the condom on. I guess I should start talking to them, but I just don’t want to. (and if there is such an alternate mechanism, how likely is it to happen). Then she texted infrequently and only replied OKs and Ks and one line answers. Body changes, Hey me and my bf had sex nov 18 and 29 2014 and I came on which was not normal at all at the beginning of dec 5 only stayed on until 8 been on for four days ob said my conception was dec 19 I did have sex with another guy dec 16 and 17 with a condoms though but dec 19 said I was already two weeks pregnant I don't no who the father I didn't use condoms with my bf so I really don't get it plz somebody help me my DUE date September 11 2015 I'm now 15 weeks 2 days so anyone answer me who u think could be the dad it said on dec 6 I was one day pregnant I'm very confused, Did any of you women end up pregnant after all after using a condom without it ripping or getting stuck in you, Well like if you smell fish or any type of sea food or anything & if you throw up it means your pregnant an if your stomach hard on top of your stomach you probably ate or something or your probably pregnant, I have married since 1year 8months now I want to conceive from 2 & half months I m trying its not happening y I would like to conceive soon I m 22 yrs old plz help me. I would like to further clarify that the 2% chance of pregnancy is per year and not per use. x, Still no period :( starting to panic now. Grounding a 17 yr old for 8 months because they had sex and then trying to take away any sort of autonomy and their girlfriend is ridiculous and isn't going to teach your kid anything other than to shit behihd your couch and hate you. Ask a science question, get a science answer. So I was expecting my period and it never came. Mid July my dog was under my bed and he took my condom box and ran out with it. ), causing breakage. I often start studying so I am too busy to have to join. I went and got blood work, and found out I was 4 weeks pregnant. but i dont feel the same. So you got pregnant: what should you do next? but we mess around first and when he gets hard he puts the condom on. Is it possible to be pregnant even though you have had a period? I know that family is important and you should never hold grudges towards your family, but my feelings feel so set in stone that I don’t think I can bring myself to have a true conversation with them. Why a lot of you here getting sex in a young old! Source. me and my bf always use condoms. I have done a test - two actually. I'm going to hijack the top comment here for the purposes of pointing out that this is r/askscience, and something that I see neglected frequently in this subreddit is that these sorts of questions are questions asked in the very specific scientific context of epidemiology (a context near and dear to me as a scientist). Hey, people shouldn't get any time for using drugs. If you believe your absent period is genuinely a sign of pregnancy, take a test. im fine but at night im really nauseated and my throwup is sour. Condom failure rates are also inflated because some young people have been shown to inaccurately report condom uses, use condoms incorrectly, and respond to survey questions with what they perceive to be socially desirable answers (Rose et al., 2009). I've seen several people claim that "double condoms" would be safe. I just hate the way our period tricks us sometimes . always have a normal period. & pull out)= P(.04)(.02) P=.0008 Numbers don't lie. However sometimes they will force me to join. Then one night I had a one night stand with a friend (horrible-YEP). Rachel: I know, I know. I stopped him in the hallway and took them back but my mom had already seen it. Condom is not safe! i am ten days late. All contents copyright © BabyCenter, L.L.C. I only wanted to address that I find epidemiology something that many people of science have a hard time identifying with as a rigorous scientific field. See my post below for a slightly colorful statement about what I'm getting at. More posts from the relationship_advice community, Continue browsing in r/relationship_advice. Maybe they will back down a d bit in time. My husband and I were planning to start trying for a baby in a few months, so it wouldn't be a bad thing, just a little earlier than planned. Here's how it works on TV: They might cite studies showing that 10% of condoms produced are defective. i use a periood tracking app. How soon after a missed period can you take a pregnancy test? Can I get pregnant if boyfriend didn't come inside of me? Ok so I have a question, the 2% effectiveness against pregnancy. x. I'm afraid the only 100% effective contraceptive is not to have sex- condoms, the pill etc are not completely foolproof. I DEEPLY hope it's just something they said in anger. CONDOM USED TO PERFECTION BUT SCARED TO DEATH, percentage on being pregnant with birth control without condom, Could my girlfriend be pregnant...condom slipped, used a condom and pulled out but now have sore boobs, sex with condom, then re-entry without condom. always have a normal period. Also didnt want to do a test believing that because we used condom (properly) all should be fine. I would have let me son (or daughter) know that I was happy they were being safe and probably give them more tips on ways to be safe and protect themselves and let them know while it’s natural they shouldn’t be having sex with a ton of random people on a whim and save it for people they truly care about. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, Huge congrats!!!!!!!! The 2% is accounting for breakage. Is there anyway I can just get over myself and speak to my parents? source. Lots of questions about my school uniform grant. A place to discuss contraception and sexual health with other Netmums. Damn! What's the best way to label school clothes? "High failure rates in some studies occur because many people over-report contraceptive use to shift the responsibility for an unintended pregnancy to a “faulty” contraceptive. Epidemiology is very different than a lot of "what happens in science" in that the methodologies used are very often very different than the well-controlled, well-designed experiments most often used to test a theory. It is a measure that is NOT what some are suggesting...a measure of perfectly used condoms in a controlled, "laboratory" setting, some of which break. My period bounces all over the place nowadays . Can you get pregnant when you used a condom? Yep me with DS1 didn't notice any splits or anything and used protection every time and still fell pregnant, i no how you feel! What proportion of these pregnancies are due to non-obvious condom failure? Condom failure rates are also inflated because some young people have been shown to inaccurately report condom uses, use condoms incorrectly, and respond to survey questions with what they perceive to be socially desirable answers (Rose et al., 2009). Also, how dare you use protection and be responsible with sex? I can't fathom why you'd be so stupid as a parent, how do so many not know your child will just lie and continue more secretly instead? Getting pregnant even with a condom - is this possible?? Yeah i always thought you'd notice. If your question is, "Will a condom used correctly that remains unbroken leave any chance for pregnancy?". By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. ***, Press J to jump to the feed. Most condom failures occur among a minority of users because they are less experienced and/or less careful about using condoms than more successful users (Steiner et al., 1993, Steiner et al., 1994)." Yes, it's possible to get pregnant with condoms. Even the manufacturers claim they're only 97% effective with PERFECT use - and most people do not use them perfectly.